I had a great week last week. I spent the week with my family that lives in Redding. First I went to my grandparents house for a couple days (dad’s side). I had a great time hanging out with them, espcially my grandpa. He is almost 81 years old and has cancer, and while that does make me sad, I still can’t help but be impressed at what a tough old brute my grandpa is. This is not his first battle with cancer, it is his 4th go around with it. On top of that he had a stroke about 10 years ago, and plenty of other health problems. And get this, he smoked for 55-60 years of his life, the only reason he quit, and this is what my uncle tells me, is because for a short period of time after his stroke, he simply forgot that he was a smoker. I will be sad when my grandpa passes, but really I am shocked that he has lived this long, some people don’t even see 55 years of life that smoke like he did, let alone 80. It is a sad thing to hear him talk about Chemo and all the effects it has had on him throughout the years, but he is determined to last as long as possible, and I couldn’t be more proud of him. Speaking of hearing him talk, every time he shared a story from his youth, I secretly recorded it on my iphone. Now I was not doing it secretly cause I think he would not want me to, but because I think it would just confuse him to know I am recording him, plus I think he might be bashful in front of a mic. He is an interesting man, and I want to be able to share his stories with the rest of my family long after he is gone. Maybe some day I will have grandkids, and I can share his stories with them.
After visiting with my grandparents, I stopped by my great aunt Betty’s house. I helped her with her computer, it was a pretty nice dell computer, but like any PC it was full of problems. I think people over 60 that are not familiar with computers should just buy macs, they are so much easier to use for someone like my aunt Betty. I felt bad for her, cause if I was not there she was going to pay someone just to figure out how to change the color scheme.
After that I went to my uncle Kent and aunt Dawn’s house to visit them. I have two cousins there that live with them, Savannah and Jada. Savannah is a HS athlete, and I was going to watch one of her games, but she sprained her ankle while I was there, so I didn’t get to see her play. Jada is almost 4 years old, and she is just full of energy. She is always singing, running around, or talking about something going on in her imaginary world. It was a lot of fun to hang out with her, especially since I only see her about once or twice a year. Yesterday I helped my uncle lay tile, he is a contractor and so it was cool to learn how much work goes into making something like a bathroom look so good. After a long day of laying tile last night Kent, Dawn and I went to a casino. We all had a great time, probably cause we all won. I enjoy hanging out with my uncle, he is bold, loud, funny, and likes to have a good time.
I hope to try and spend more time visiting that side of my family in the future, I always have a good time with them, its just too bad they live so far away.
Tonight I am staying in Brentwood, and will be here for about a week. My old youth pastor, and some of my old youth leaders live here, and so I am going to spend some time with them helping out at their church, Creekside Christian Church.